Is the choice you are creating honoring you? | Susan Lazar Hart

Is the choice you are creating honoring you?


Is the choice you are creating honoring you?

Thu. 26 Jan 2017  |  Ask Susan

For this week’s “Ask Susan,” we have questions from two members on the subject of “Where am I in this relationship?”

Q 1. Hi Susan – I finally found a relationship that works for me. He is married. And I would be considered the other woman. I have a point of view about it, not hugely, but I do. So many judgements and so many other things are being thrown at me because of it.

What can I do so it does not emotionally crippled me or him?

Q 2. I have always had the point of view that if I am in a relationship it is me only. I am not willing to share my partner with another. What if I found out my partner was seeing someone else? I love him and can’t seem to let go. He denies he is seeing someone else, yet I get the energy he is. Can I be in allowance of this? Should I simply leave and continue my life by myself?

If I keep him in my life as is, am I diservicing myself and short changing me? Is it possible to love more than one person at the same? He says he will never leave me and he doesn’t want me to leave either. Yet something has changed between us, yet energetically he is still a contribution to me. I am caught in an ebb and flow with my emotions and desires. One minute I want to be with him no matter what, and the next I just want to cut him off completely. I really wish it could be like how it used to be.

What do I do or be here to get clarity of what I should do?

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